Thursday, January 6, 2011

MY LIFE

There was once a family who lived in a simple way of life. They have a simple lifestyle and and a simple way of living. But these family are bound to have a strong belief in God the creator and savior of mankind. They are the strong believer of God, and a devoted Christian.This family is my family.


My name is Rubie Lee Cayao a daughter of my beloved parents mr. and Mrs. Roberto Cayao, we lived in a place where far away from city or it is known as province, a province of cauayan negros Occidental. My father was a fisherman and my mother responsible house wife who take good care of us. But they gave us their best to make us a better person and mold us to become a good children.


They though us and guide us to a way where we can find the betterment and success. They lead us to a right path to reach our goals even we are enough numbers of their children.


Among 7 Children of my parents i am second to the youngest, the 6th among 7. i remember the time when I studied in elementary while some of my brothers and sisters are in High school. We are all striving to get a good grade for at least we can make our parent proud despite of hardship and poverty.


We realized the challenges that my parents encountered just to gave us good education.Those challenges are the source of power why my parents are working hard to give us a good tommorow.


While studying in elementary we are all required by our parents to have a good grades, while they are also striving to suppor us. We feel how my parent are strict in terms of our study, and later on we realized that those things are not just for them but for us.
My elementary days was quit intersting despite of poverty we encounter, but still keep moving on towards our goal to graduate at elementary.


After six years of hard study and all year long walking from our house to school in vice versa, because during that time theres no other transportation except those who have their own motor cycle. But we didnt take it seriously, for me its a part of challenge.


When i started studying in High school, i feel the diference from my previous year in elementary and to a new world of education. This time, our school is 3 times far from our house compare to my elementary school. Since i cant take to walk from house to school and vice versa, i decided to stay in my grand lola house which is just a distance from our school.


My high school days was fun and interesting and i learned a lot from it. But still theres no changes in our life, we still fighting the poverty. I realize that i need to help my parents to lift our life from poverty, and i promise my self that someday we can have the life that is different from what we have now. I promise to give a good life to my parents and family. This is my motivation to finsih my study in High school, and i proceed to college for my final stage of education.


This time, i have now the mind of a mature human and take different responsibilities for my self and my studys. I am stick with my plans and goals which help my family to have a good life. my college was difficult, because i am now independent, away from my family and parents and i live in a home without any relatives or family. My study in college was difficult and sometimes i want to give up but i am still motivated by my plans for my family.I want to help them and give them a good life, keep moving for it and keep striving for the best i can.


There are different problems came in our life, in terms of physical and financial problem. But these are not the hindrances to get my goals, i keep moving forward for it. After my study on college where i also encountered different challenges and trials which makes me become more stronger and better person. I finsihed the 3 stages of educations which i took for 14 years of study, but it helped me a lot of having a chances of good job.


I worked from different companies where i earn my salary which i used to support it for my parents for their daily needs.Year passed by and my age are getting older,i decided to enter in a relationhips while im still doing my responsible for my family.


I decided to marry a man who became my boy friend for how many years, we have a relationship and we decided to marry. This man is love of my life, his name is TOm lee a korean handsome who took my heart. After our marriage we went to Korea to start a new life, and still i am supporting my parents and family. But this time is different, me and my husband are helping together to help family by sending them money for their daily needs.


Year passed by, i invited my father and mother to visit in here in korea for 3 months.That was the most memorable moments they had in Korea, our life are getting better as i started to have my own job here, i am also doing my part time earning in internet. My income is enough to support my family, at least they are now living in a happy life.